Letting Someone Know You Care Today
Want to show someone you love them? Here are some ideas for ways to show you care:
Do Not Say It
“Actions speak louder than words,” right? True. While you can apologize for not doing something until you're blue in the face, simply doing it will gain you much more appreciation from others. Yes, it means you have to work harder to keep up with simple tasks like taking out the trash or running an errand. Because you did it without being asked or reminded, your loved one will know you care.
Avoid Arguing And Pick Your Battles in Life
Arguments cause relationship strife, even among family or friends. “How can I stop arguing?” you ask. Easy, because we choose to converse with others (whether we always do so consciously or not). Make a point of stopping an argument when you notice it starting. Remember that not every argument is worth having, so don't feel obligated to get into one just because someone else wants one. Saying something like “I'm sorry, I can't talk about this right now, let's talk about it later...” will end the debate. So we have...
Accept Your Mistakes And Apologize Soon
Why apologize if you're not “wrong”? It all depends on your viewpoint. Is being “right” more important than hurting your loved ones? “Well, hell, I may have caused her a world of hurt, but at least she knew who was right!” Apologies are easy, free, and within your control. Giving them out freely and easily will make you and your loved ones feel better. It shows you care about them more than winning an (often silly) argument. (As with anything, going too far is unhealthy, but know when to pick your battles.)
Do Something Unusual to Let Someone Know You Care
Want to know how to show someone you care interestingly? Then do something unusual. Most people enjoy a pleasant surprise, especially if it benefits them or makes their life easier for a brief period. It could be as simple as a “just because” card or an offer to watch the kids one night when you weren't available. Making a commitment to do something like cook dinner or take out the trash and then doing it. Simple actions can mean a lot, especially if the other person has had a rough day. Imagine if it was your night to cook but you had a stressful day. Your partner understands and offers to cook instead. It shows a lot of care, even if it seems obvious or simple.
Every Morning, Appreciate The Other Person.
Gratitude for the people and things in our lives is one of the simplest ways to feel happy every day. You don't have to show a lot of love. Simple gestures like saying “I love you” or packing a favorite lunch may suffice. Living with someone every day can breed familiarity (or, as the saying goes, contempt). Remember that and act like a lover, not a scorekeeper. A silent way of showing your partner you care can be as important as an outward, direct display.
Regularly showing others you care is harder than it sounds. Our closest friends and family are often the ones to whom we show the least amount of care and affection. But most people need and appreciate a little care. It's not difficult, but it requires conscious effort, which we may need to remember at least once a week, if not daily.